Saturday, August 04, 2012

A queer thing happened on the way to the market...

Char Carter, Chairperson of Herefordshire Pride, is the instigator. What started as a Facebook group last summer has blossomed. Originally to test the waters for a larger organisation, the group quickly got fifty people together and showed that such an organisation was needed. Although Rainbow Forum already exists, a collaborative event didn't work out so Herefordshire Pride is a separate entity now, established in December last year/January this year. The plan was to have a fundraiser this year and a Pride event next year, but it 'kind of snowballed' and now there is a Facebook page, Twitter feed, WordPress Blog and a website.

As a regular, Char thought the obvious place to hold this event was in a familiar location such as The Spread Eagle Inn. Other venues were investigated, specifically those that were free or cheaply available, but the most significant factor was the friendliness of the staff. A big concern was the welcome that such an event might have for the regulars and those working there. If held at The Vault there would be a cover charge and the patrons and staff would just have to get on with it, but The Spread is a very welcoming atmosphere. Other events have been held such as a social drink per month, cover evenings, quizzes and even a zumba class, which admittedly wasn't very successful: 'it is a learning curve.'

With no designated LGBT centre, Hereford needs queer-friendly venues for the benefit of the LGBT community and for the education of the non-LGBT locals. Play, a local nightclub which used to be Bushwackers has been a sort-of centre of LGBT social scene. Whilst The Spread Eagle is friendly is has taken months to make this place recognised as the place to go. There have been so many attempts at fostering a strong queer focus to the town that has variously centred on The Saracen's Head, The Black Lion and The Orange Tree - any quiet pub really.

Ready to don her 'I tried being straight, it sent me around the bend' rainbow-icon t-shirt, Char presents herself as an enthusiastic leader of this fledgling group. Herefordshire Pride is aiming to be a charity. Currently a non-profit organisation, it is not a charity yet as it has not earned enough: charities must have £5000 turn-over per year to register. No-one in the group's organisation gets paid and tonight is a free event with only two paid acts the DJ, Lady Diana, and Will Killeen who is performing at a discount. They will be accepting donations and providing merchandise for sale, such as badges, t-shirts, etc. This slowly evolving organisation has a committee entirely Herefordshire-based. The committee meetings are everywhere: other venues used to host the public meetings designed to attract people, but generally they now happen in Jules' front room now. Joining the committee is relatively easy: 'just contact us' or speak to Char about it, come to social drinks. There is no need to be voted on, only three positions, Chair, Financial Secretary and Secretary, require that. You don't even have to associate yourself with one of the LGBT (LGBTQQ or FABGLITTER letters), although Jules is Secretary, Aaron is Finance Secretary and straight.

There may be other pride events this summer. They intend to organise another event with a small charge to fund raise, as public funding has not been sought yet. The committee didn't feel comfortable for the first year, having seen other groups rush into things, wasting the money granted just because they have the cash. Regular nights somewhere seem to be the main goal, rather than a community centre. Another focus is the education of the masses into the spectrum of queer culture, that every LGBT thing isn't just 'drag queens and screaming gays.' Today there are acoustic sets in the afternoon, stand-up comedians; the only gay-specific act are the Pet Shop Bears.

Advertising has been based on Facebook, Twitter, the website, posters, flyers and word of mouth; a big turn-out is hoped for, though the worry is that it will end up being 'nobody or packed solid'. With a 300 capacity venue, are there enough queers in Hereford to fill it? Char anticipates people from Gloucester and Shropshire coming, along with a fair representation of Hereford's various communities, a mixed crowd not solely LGBT. The greatest hope is that the community realise that Herefordshire Pride are here doing this. As Char said, 'if you want more to be done for your community, show support, just make us think it is worthwhile.' After La Rue's nightclub closed down two years ago there has been a gap in the market, perhaps Char and her committee are able to fill the niche.

As far as Char is concerned, Hereford has always been a welcoming and friendly place. Herefordian born and bred, she has only experienced three or four negative experiences in the last two and half years, three of which were from kids. She supposes that with Lady Gaga and other queer-friendly musicians and popular culture icons, it helps make LGBT status and issues such as gay rights more mainstream both in the media and general awareness for Joe Bloggs. Rather than any negativity the main feeling now is that 'no-one gives a damn,' that there is no longer a limited experience on the social scene.

With luck, Herefordshire Pride has begun the latest wave of development in the local queer community, spreading a message of tolerance in diversity. Given the reactions of those enjoying the music so far, it seems that a warm welcome is guaranteed.

Herefordshire Pride Aug 4th 2012: Join us today!

Today The Spread Eagle Inn welcomes the Shire's LGBT community to an exciting event, the county's annual Pride. With a gloriously diverse set-list including music and comedy it is sure to be entertaining.

Come along and join us!

Location:
The Spread Eagle Inn,
2 King Street
Hereford
HR4 9BW

Free entry live music stand up and DJ. Local ciders on tap and a very welcoming atmosphere!

Set list
3:30pm Opening of pride
3:32pm Bethany Black
4:00pm Will Killeen
5:00pm Sally Haines
5:30pm Phil Whitehead
6:00pm Martin Throne
6:50pm Sarah Savage
7:10pm Pet Shop Bears
8:00pm Club Midnight
12:00am Close of Pride

Please note the timings are rough and may run later or earlier.

Sunday, June 03, 2012

Diamond Jubilee: Never-before-seen footage shows Charles and Anne buried up to their necks on the beach | Mail Online

Diamond Jubilee: Never-before-seen footage shows Charles and Anne buried up to their necks on the beach | Mail Online

I love these pictures apart from the ones with the Princess Anne's naked torso; it isn't appropriate for her body to be displayed like this. However modern we feel, society and culture combined dictate that female torsos are (eventually) sexualised. To reveal this part of her body is to reveal the later sexualised region; it is immodest. I am surprised that she and her family permitted release of these images.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Canada, I love you, but losing the 1cent coin seems foolish...

Canada Gets Rid of the Penny (Huzzah!) - GraphJam: Music and Pop Culture in Charts and Graphs. Let us explain them.



I can't be as excited about this as I thought I would be before watching the video. It seems to me that low income families will be disproportionately disadvantaged by this change. Less likely to have a credit card and more lively to make regular small purchases rather than a weekly/monthly 'big shop,' these families will face the rounding up or down more often than everyone else. Little kids getting their daily after-school candy of 13 1cent jelly sweets will spend the rest of the school year paying 15cents for these 13 candies, 10cents a week more, 40 cents a month - that is a lot of extra candies these kids could be enjoying if not for this policy change. 1cent stamps to upgrade old postage to new higher rates will now be...FREE??? No, I expect they will require multi-purchases to round up. No more small enterprise commodity exchange, we're now part of the Bulk-Buy Bonanza.



So, no more chances to purchase 1cent items in small quantities.



These low income families on a budget may in fact buy the SAME BASKET OF GOODS regularly; if each day they are buying $2.33 worth of groceries but paying $2.35, then by the end of the year they've lost 2centsx365 = £7.30, half a week's groceries. Not a lot, granted, but no amount of money lost as a result of government changes is good.

Monday, April 02, 2012

@MadMen_AMC latest episode: I am sixteen going on seventeen...

Finally, someone else realises that Don and Dawn sound the same with an American accent. First, Erin and Aaron on Criminal Minds...and now Mad Men... Not just my ears then!

Sunday, April 01, 2012

@CSI_CBS / @CrimMinds_CBS should take better care of their female cast & characters, and why Garcia is our saving grace

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CSI Catherine Willows' replacement seems about a decade younger but pretty much a photo-fit. They even kept her wardrobe to clothe the newbie, who continues the sassy attitude. Aren't Miss Fox and the blonde chick annoyed that another female was brought in for flavour? Weren't they considered enough? Shouldn't they be booted up the roster? At least we are getting more gender equality with more female characters, plus the representation of an older female is handy... But I can't help be perturbed that the show echoes the storyline where the long-serving cast/staff are passed over for fresh meat. Replacing Gil Grissom was necessary, but they should have promoted Catherine, then added a new weirdo (á la Laurence Fishburne and Ted Danson).

Now, Criminal Minds is not doing much better. All their marketing shows Rossi, Hotchner and Morgan centre-stage, the women on the periphery: See their Twitter, their website section describing the show, even the front page of the website without a single picture of the female case. After the furore over reducing Pager Brewster's episode number and completely letting go of, the equally lovely, A.J. Cook, we have Emily and J.J. back from the dead and the Pentagon, respectively. But now Miss Brewster has decided to leave the show entirely of her own accord. Whilst we had a brief hissy fit over the introduction of that Agent-in-Training-daughter-of-serial-killer, Ashley Seaver, as a (presumably cheaper on the pay role) replacement for the older women, this was swiftly corrected at the beginning of this season. Now there is the threat that Paget's final (yes, definitely this time) exit will leave producers tempted to add in fresh talent of the younger, blonder variety. Now, as a young blonde myself, I am not against these women, but I think we need more diversity. Why not get alcoholic Chief Erin Strauss (anyone else continually confused when these American actors say Aaron and Erin in EXACTLY THE SAME WAY?) demoted from her role and required to serve time as an agent in the field, so that the team has to teach an old dog new tricks? [Sorry, neither actress nor character are a bitch or ugly, as far as I know.]

Actually, I'd prefer Garcia (and the resident queer actress portraying her) to have a larger part to play. She is diverse in appearance, size, personality, not wanting to jump at marriage with her guy; yeah, she is pretty a great role model for girls: smart, great job, funny, sensitive to the horrific crimes she helps solve, recognises her weaknesses, not afraid to stand up for her beliefs or the people she loves. What a superstar.


Budget constraints cannot be ignored, but they could easily invite new faces to the show who aren't necessarily new to the industry. Maybe this is already sorted, but if not, here are my suggestions:

Kiersten Warren (though she seems pretty loved up with her gorgeous husband and daughter, so she might not be interested in a part)

Meredith Eaton (who may be contracted to NCIS)

Jennifer Beals (since Chicago Code didn't work out, she might be tempted by a role as a whip smart agent...who could tempt Garcia into a lesbian tryst! Hooray!)

Could the new character please be something different? Reid is the boffin; Morgan has the swagger; Hotchner has the gruffness; Garcia has the zaniness; Rossi has the...saginess(?)...sagacity! The new face should not be another trainee, or some old hand brought in from retirement, but something else... hmm, maybe, an agent on an international agency-swap, someone from Britain! Yes, that's it! Prentiss says since being 'back' she's never quite settled so she's taking the offer of swapping with another agency for 'sharing best practice' purposes and taking Sergio to live in Blighty!
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