Showing posts with label bi-dyke/bisexual. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bi-dyke/bisexual. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Early start!

The Journal of Bisexuality from The American Institute for Bisexuality has the following editorial board:
  • Editor-in-Chief: Jonathan Alexander, PhD - University of California, Irvine
  • Assistant Editor: Regina U. Reinhardt, PhD - Board of Directors, American Institute of Bisexuality
  • Book Review Editor: David van Leer, PhD - University of California, Davis
  • Film/Video Review Editor: Wayne Bryant - President, Bisexual Resource Center
Editorial Board:
  • Serena Anderlini-D'onofrio, PhD - University of Puerto Rico, Mayaguez
  • Jana Evans Braziel, PhD - University of Cincinnati
  • Amity Buxton - Director, Straight Spouse Network
  • Eli Coleman, PhD - University of Minnesota
  • Clive Davis, PhD - Syracuse University
  • Sharon Dean, PhD -University of Cincinnati
  • Sari Dworkin, PhD - California State University, Fresno
  • Ron Fox, PhD - Saybrook Graduate School & Research Center
  • Alexei Guren - BiNet USA and National Bisexual Advisory Board
  • Marty Klein - Sex Therapist and Author
  • Robyn Ochs -Tufts University
  • Larry Peterson, PhD - University of Delaware
  • Paula C. Rodriguez Rust, PhD - SUNY, Geneseo
  • Ron Jackson Suresha, Rev. Br., ULC - Independent Queen Masculinities Author
  • Geri D. Weitzman, PhD - Private Practice and Bisexuality-Aware Professional Directory
  • Karen Yescavage, PhD - Colorado State University, Pueblo

These academics may well be worth keeping an eye on.

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How is it that I haven't heard of homonormativity until now? From Wikipedia:
"Homonormativity is the assimilation of heteronormative ideals and constructs into LGBTQ culture and individual identity. The term was coined by Lisa Duggan in 2003. According to Penny Griffin, Politics and International Relations lecturer at the University of New South Wales, homonormativity upholds neoliberalism rather than critiquing monogamy, procreation, and binary gender roles as heterosexist and racist. Duggan asserts that homonormativity fragments LGBTQ communities into hierarchies of worthiness. LGBTQ people that come the closest to mimicking heteronormative standards of gender identity are deemed most worthy of receiving rights. LGBTQ individuals at the bottom of the hierarchy (transsexuals, transvestites, intersex, bisexuals, non-gender identified) are seen as an impediment to this elite class of homonormative individuals receiving their rights."
  • Duggan, Lisa. The Twilight of Equality?: Neoliberalism, Cultural Politics, and the Attack On Democracy. Beacon Press, 2003.
  • Griffin, Penny. “Sexing the Economy in a Neo-liberal World Order: Neo-liberal Discourse and the (Re)Production of Heteronormative Heterosexuality.” British Journal of Politics and International Relations 9.2 (2007): 220-238. Academic Search Premier. EBSCO. MCTC LIBRARY. 30 June 2009.
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Bilerico did two great things today: mentioned bisexuality AND Michel Foucault!
Check out their great article here.
This is a snippet:
"The public conception of homosexuality coincided with a growing concern with effeminacy that appeared in England in the eighteenth century. Boys typically wore girl's clothing until they were sent away to boarding school. Men's clothing was frilly in the Elizabethan Age. However, clothing became more sharply differentiated from the 1770s on. There were diatribes against fops and dandies. By the nineteenth century, men no longer dared embrace in public or shed tears."

It occurs to me that American history at some point has to switch to a shared British history, as the behaviours/cultural phenomena of today are fed by the origins of these practices. These origins are almost uniquely British (with some Dutch influence, etc.) - it isn't until much later that other countries come to the melting pot of cultures that became USA. As the arriving families came to seek a better life in the new land, the new West, they brought their own ideas and norms. But until then the reference points for Americans lay within British soil. Understanding American practices by referring to Elizabethan clothing may seem odd, but it is accurate - there are linkages that cannot be denied - a continuation of stories through the ages.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Klein Online

Thanks to BiMedia.org for bringing this new website to my attention.

Klein online allows a few questions to be answered and thus a grid is prepared identifying your degree of homo/bi/heterosexuality.

I have a problem with the supposition that there are two sexes - I am sure there are better ways of phrasing the questions. Do you want to be with people like you physically or like you mentally, or does packaging/personality not matter? :)

Here is my result, but I have no idea what it means!

Tuesday, July 06, 2010

Community awareness

Please take a few minutes to complete an important questionnaire about LGBT community values. You can learn more about the survey here. You can take the test here.

There is also one specifically about bisexual identities here (there is more info here).

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Gabby Sidibe being awesome!

Gabby Sidibe being awesome on the red carpet - I need not say any more - that is enough.




As much as I love this clip and like that pansexual/fluid sexual decisions are okay/normal/not weird/suitable for the red carpet, I am a bit tired of the orgy/threesome trope being touted during many discussions of non-homo/non-hetero attraction.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

I must, I must improve my...

Darlinks! Here are the tippity-tip-toppiest tips EVER!

Lexicon improvement from Queers United: "Gynaeotrope" is an unpopular and outdated term for a lesbian that was used in the 1940's to counter the negative connotations of the word homosexual. You learn something new every day!

More autostraddle.com goodness in the form of Ms. Beals who incidentally presented a half hour show on Pablo Neruda after the Il Postino surprise hit movie.

Gay happiness in China with supportive parents but name trouble thwarts those with individual identifying monnikers as the Chinese government was bureaucracy to deal with only a limited set of Chinese characters.

Fashionable boundaries broken in First Amendment challenge over boy wanting to wear a rainbow wrist band

Facebook feed is actually occasionally useful as it lead me to discover Spotify the shiny rival to lastfm.com

Visual display of stereotypes and assumptions

Friday, March 20, 2009

Cartographic Crush

How have I lived so long on this wonderful planet having never heard of lovemaps before?

Also from WIKIPEDIA:

Genderfuck is a politics of identity stemming from the identity politics movements of the 1950s and 1960s, a guiding principle of which is the idea that the personal is political.[3]

The term dates at least to 1979, when an article by Christopher Lonc, entitled "Genderfuck and Its Delights", appeared in the magazine Gay Sunshine. Lonc wrote "I want to criticize and poke fun at the roles of women and of men too. I want to try and show how not-normal I can be. I want to ridicule and destroy the whole cosmology of restrictive sex roles and sexual identification."[4]

and...http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_Faeries

Genderbending films!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victor_Victoria

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Connie_and_Carla

Ooh, and one for the calendar: Gay Shame ...goes girly!

One more for the road...

Beautiful unisexual photographs from a talented Parisienne...

Genderfork: The place to absorb and question - rather like pomoworld, but mellower... Though saying that, check out their Dance Party video!

Bugis have a fascinating five gendered societal spectrum... check out the video

Such gender non-conformity is finding favour in traditionally conservative China...

Monday, December 15, 2008

It's a fair cop, Guv'nor. You've got me bang to rights and no mistake.

So, I briefly considered a wee introduction about myself, my life, my project, but I thought blow that, let's just jump right in! You guys will grasp what's going on quick enough... For those that need a hook to continue reading let it suffice to say that this fledgling blog is going to cover every bizarre, unexpected and controversial (to some) conversation, thought and experience that form a good proportion of my existence. I'm not crazy, it's just that the people around me are...

Today's weirdness is courtesy of D-man and his attempts to pimp me out... No, I'm serious - he has this pal who is thinking of trying lesbianism (based on some rubbish experiences with men and a current interest in exploring sapphic
tendencies...). Here follows our facebook chat conversation - since this is my first post I thought I would be lazy and just ctrl+c this bad boy. A cheat? Yeah, maybe, but at least you know my standards from the off.

After an extended foray into the varying benefits of pillow-talk referencing one's own or one's partner's genitalia (i.e Which is sexier - talking about your own bits or that of your current bed-mate's?) and how my preference indicates likelihood of being a fully-blown lesbo
as opposed to a pretty balanced bisexual (which I always assumed I was), I came to the conclusion at 2:49pm that I am fascinated by sexuality. I worried that it was a reflection of how much/little I was getting - that there might be an (in)verse relationship - but now I think it is actually just something that interests me. Everything from the use of sexual practice to create new life or to self-identify & determine one's own orientation, to the use of orgasm as artistic exploration - I am fascinated by it all. There are so many options, diversions, perversions. You can never summarise or collate. There are innumerable bastardisations and derivations. Like a very fine fractal diagram eternally diverging/converging. Rather poetic, no?

My partner in crime (D-Man) was happy to discuss the issue... but first there was one matter to clear up - my academic education thus far not being in anything remotely related... Would this stop me from talking about such things? Not on your nelly. Having taken courses in mostly science subjects since age 16 I'm not really best placed to comment on such culturally-created concepts as gender, orientation, etc. But I wasn't going to let a little thing like that hold be back.

Luckily I have found management (in which I have my university degree and current PhD research) to be an appropriately interdisciplinary subject. It is about managing expectations, goals, people, processes and power - all the facets of sexual exploration; it isn't just about running a company.

After half an hour of banter about gender-expression and related topics we had to briefly part company but we were soon back in the swing of things...

3:08pmD-Man
brb

3:17pmD
-Man
sorry about that
was it terrible without me?
3:17pmBioGal

actually I have been busy self-identifying as a bi-dyke
was v hard work
3:18pmD
-Man
as in you were evaluating whether you want to do away with cock completely?
3:28pmD
-Man
or does that mean something entirely more scandalous?
3:28pmBioGal

no no
I was learning the definition of bi-dyke and seeing if it fitted me mentally
or at least if it fitted me mentally right now
and I think it might
3:29pmD
-Man
what is a bi-dyke?
3/4 for girls, 1/4 for boys?
3:30pmBioGal

sort of, a bisexual woman who is more queer/lesbo
/woman identified - i.e. feels more comfortable in that community than the str8 one

Then [whilst dashing to the loo] thinking back to the prospect of being the one to introduce D-Man's pal to homosexy shenanigans, I remembered my own initial lesbi-friendly flirtations and those of several ladies for whom I was their first lady-lover... and decided to proclaim them as fact. Luckily D-Man didn't seem to notice or care that I offered no basis for purporting these things to be true other than my own personal experience...

the weird thing is women who are thinking about trying lady-love prefer their potential partner to be bi(curious)
they do not want a fully-fledged dyke
they want a shared interested in men, a mutual get-out clause
in fact part of the initial flirting routine of women attempting tentative lady-love is to share/compare guy preferences
talking about muscles, sweaty sporty men
as if it sets foundations for later retreats when the lady-love isn't successful
'I told you I preferred Jean-Claude Van Damme
type-men - it isn't you, it's just that I prefer muscly men'
maybe it is less of a rejection to say it is a lack of interest in lesbianism rather than 'I do want to be snogging a woman but just not if the woman is you'
3:35pmBioGal

I guess also that establishing one's interest and experience with men means it is less intimidating when you get to the nitty
-gritty - you are not expected to be awesome at loving women as it is so foreign
anyway, they were my thoughts in your absence
3:37pmD
-Man
wow
that's a lot to process
3:37pmD
-Man
not quite as sexy as the rest of the conversation, i have to be honest
3:39pmBioGal

I had better fuck off and let you do some work... sorry for chewing your cyber
-ear off


... and there our conversation ended. D-Man had to run to his radio show and I wandered in search of food-based sustenance - The word of the Lord might fill some bellies (Ezekiel 3:3), but He wasn't feeling chatty and I craved chocolate...

Until next time, hombres!
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